Well now that I am working a little bit and Ayden Jane is out of school it has been interesting to see how the day goes when Mommy is not around. A couple of days ago, Gary had some things to do up in MB so he took Ayden Jane and treated her to the bouncy slide/playhouse things. There were some great successes from the day and some .... well not so great successes.
Basically, Gary is pelted with, "Mommy says I can have..., Mommy says I can do ....... " and he honestly knows that's NOT what Mommy says but wants to avoid the ensuing melt down. I know that my other kids used to give him a flash of panic when he did things differently than Mommy (especially Kayla) but they learned to just go with it. I believe AJ will too, but it has been interesting to 'watch' them work it out.
I guess, when I think about it, Gary and AJ have not spent very much time just the two of them. I mean, Gary plays with her plenty but I am usually around or he has Mckenna with him... Noah has kept Ayden Jane quite a bit over this past year and they have their routines down. She amazingly does not really argue with him and he just has a way with her.
Glad for Gary and Ayden Jane to establish their own things and routines.
That sounds like all they did was argue. Honestly that was just a small part. Ayden Jane was thrilled to have Daddy Day and talked ALL day long. Gary's first question when he saw me was, does she ever stop talking? It was a filled with energy day so she went all day with little to no nap. Gary was so great. After all that he took Ayden Jane to horses too.
Basically, Gary is pelted with, "Mommy says I can have..., Mommy says I can do ....... " and he honestly knows that's NOT what Mommy says but wants to avoid the ensuing melt down. I know that my other kids used to give him a flash of panic when he did things differently than Mommy (especially Kayla) but they learned to just go with it. I believe AJ will too, but it has been interesting to 'watch' them work it out.
I guess, when I think about it, Gary and AJ have not spent very much time just the two of them. I mean, Gary plays with her plenty but I am usually around or he has Mckenna with him... Noah has kept Ayden Jane quite a bit over this past year and they have their routines down. She amazingly does not really argue with him and he just has a way with her.
Glad for Gary and Ayden Jane to establish their own things and routines.
That sounds like all they did was argue. Honestly that was just a small part. Ayden Jane was thrilled to have Daddy Day and talked ALL day long. Gary's first question when he saw me was, does she ever stop talking? It was a filled with energy day so she went all day with little to no nap. Gary was so great. After all that he took Ayden Jane to horses too.
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